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		<title>The Predictions of Patricia 1977/1978</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 05:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[One of the traditions in Morningland was the annual predictions or prophecies. Sri Patricia (later repackaged as Sri Donato) was marketed as a visionary who could see into the future with uncanny accuracy. She herself described her accuracy as &#8220;1,000% correct&#8221; which was &#8220;100% correct, but with 10 times the magnification.&#8221; Many of her predictions [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the traditions in Morningland was the annual predictions or prophecies.  Sri Patricia (later repackaged as Sri Donato) was marketed as a visionary who could see into the future with uncanny accuracy. She herself described her accuracy as &#8220;<em>1,000% correct</em>&#8221; which was &#8220;100% correct, but with 10 times the magnification.&#8221;</p>
<p>Many of her predictions really can&#8217;t be verified either way.  These predictions include statements such as &#8220;<strong>There is good news on the spiritual levels. People on the spiritual path will have much more inner peace and will have less war within themselves. Their health will be much better too.</strong>&#8221;</p>
<p>Or &#8220;<strong>Always following a leap year there is an incredible year. This will be a fast-moving year; one of great chaos. A wild, mad, reversal year in everything, including politics. There will be great confusion &#8212; deep unrest.</strong>&#8221;  How can you verify that with websites that describe history? One really can&#8217;t. </p>
<p>Still, as I looked through Sri&#8217;s annual predictions for 1977 a few items stuck out as actually being something that we could research and come up with some historic facts to shed some light on to the accuracy of her predictions.</p>
<p>What this forum includes are these predictions. As you read through them, you might consider doing some research on-line to see if any of these items can be verified.  If you find something that supports her predictions or something that doesn&#8217;t, consider posting the URL (web address) beneath the prediction so we can see for ourselves.</p>
<p>All predictions (at the time of this edit, February, 2005) come from one of two editions of <em>&#8230; as it is magazine</em> Copyright 1977 and 1978, Morningland Publications. Specifically, what was used was volume 2 &#8211; number 11 &#8220;Special New Year&#8217;s Issue&#8221; published January 1978, and volume 3 &#8211; number 3 &#8220;Special Taurus Issue&#8221; May 1978.</p>
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		<title>Introduction to the Dao of Donato</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 04:27:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I never knew Donato nor did I have any direct interaction with him while he was alive. Had a few dreams that included him but I don&#8217;t know that I can say if it was really him or not. Who can? Most who have made their presence known to ex-morninglanders.com hold Donato in very high [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I never knew Donato nor did I have any direct interaction with him while he was alive. Had a few dreams that included him but I don&#8217;t know that I can say if it was really him or not. Who can?</p>
<p>Most who have made their presence known to ex-morninglanders.com hold Donato in very high esteem, specifically those who knew him. When the Morningland leadership is attacked, 99% of the time these attacks are leveled at Sri Patricia.</p>
<p>I myself question this a bit. Donato was married to Sri and while there are stories of how he could control her rants, there are others where he did nothing to question her visions, even those that are now considered textbook cult mentality fear manipulations such as the gopis&#8217; threat of walking 10,000 years on the astral planes should they fail in their mission of bringing the Holy Father to planet earth. While this threat is nothing compared to the Quark Threat of 2029 (<em>LONG</em> story), memories of Donato continue to remain somewhat untarnished by Sri&#8217;s paranoid rants.</p>
<p>Donato was a nice guy. I got that.  However there are lots of nice guys but precious few who are actually wise.  What I want to do in this forum is examine Donato&#8217;s wisdom. I do not look up to him as the Avatar for the Aquarian age, but I&#8217;m willing to look at his teachings and when they hold water with their wisdom, I&#8217;m going to support them by pulling them out of the hippy-dippy 70&#8242;s jargon in which they were originally spoken.</p>
<p>Those who still hold fast to his teachings, especially those who came on-board after his passing may see this as what Sri called &#8220;perversion of the teachings&#8221;.  I don&#8217;t even know how to address this issue it is so ridiculous. Donato&#8217;s teachings are already caught in time due to his reliance on culturally specific references that have fallen out of favor in common usage. Still, some of his quotes are reasonably workable from a self-development point of view and I want to celebrate that fact in this forum.</p>
<p>I also want to question those teachings that really don&#8217;t work for me of which there are quite a few. Of course, this is an open document, with comments allowed. </p>
<p>My own perspective is heavily influenced by Taoism (AKA Daoism) and Zen Buddhism and so much of my interpretations of his words will be using the yard sticks of these two spiritual paths as well as others to which I feel an affinity. Feel free to disagree all you want, but should your post become an insane rant, it will be removed.  Try and think calmly and rationally, and we&#8217;ll all benefit from the footprints that Donato left behind.</p>
<p>-Sunfleur</p>
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		<title>Dear Abbey Article Rings Morningland Bells</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 22:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a Dear Abbey column that appeared in newspapers in Late July, 2001. Dear Abby: Last year, our family went through the most traumatic experience of our lives: We left the church we&#8217;d been attending for more than a decade. I always suspected our church was a little &#8220;unusual,&#8221; but because I saw what [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><P><i><br />
This is a Dear Abbey column that appeared in newspapers in Late July, 2001.<br />
</I></P></p>
<p><P><br />
Dear Abby:  </p>
<p></P></p>
<p><P><br />
Last year, our family went through the most traumatic<br />
experience of our lives:  We left the church we&#8217;d been attending for<br />
more than a decade.  I always suspected our church was a little<br />
&#8220;unusual,&#8221; but because I saw what appeared to be positive changes in<br />
people&#8217;s lives,  I kept telling myself we couldn&#8217;t possibly be involved<br />
in a cult.<br />
</P><span id="more-252"></span></p>
<p><P><br />
My family and I were led to believe we were members of a &#8220;special&#8221; group<br />
- that we had a &#8220;different&#8221; calling than other churches,  which was why<br />
we had to work harder and sacrifice more than the average Christian.  We<br />
were ordered to terminate any activity or relationship that pulled us<br />
away from our our church obligations or planted seeds of doubt in our<br />
minds.<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
Finally, things got so weird my husband and could ignore it no longer.<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
We informed the pastor we would not be coming back.  He said if we did,<br />
we would become &#8220;shipwrecked&#8221; &#8211;  doomed to divorce,  and our kids would<br />
not serve God when they grew up.  Then two church leaders called to beg<br />
us not to &#8220;leave the fold&#8221;<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
By the grace of God,  we escaped.  I suffered nightmares,  depression<br />
and total mistrust of any other church for a long time after that.  We,<br />
who were once part of the trusted few,  the &#8220;elite inner circle,&#8221;  were<br />
now the enemy.<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
We lost all our friends.  We had known some of them more than 10 years.<br />
Although they claimed to love us,  they were forced to cut us off &#8211; the<br />
same thing we had done to those who had left before us.<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
Please print my letter as a wake-up call to let people know that scare<br />
tactics,  manipulation and mind control techniques are very much alive.<br />
They are not just reserved for cults,  but are used by some churches.<br />
It&#8217;s called &#8220;spiritual abuse,&#8221;  and it&#8217;s as real as any other form of<br />
abuse.  Books on the subject can be found at local libraries.<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
Thankfully,  we now belong to a church that does not control our lives,<br />
does not shame us when we ask questions,  does not resort to belittling<br />
and name-calling,  and does not blame us for its failures.  Instead,<br />
our church serves as a positive symbol and source of strength.<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
If people have doubts about an organization or church to which they<br />
belong,  they should check it out.  It it&#8217;s a legitimate organization,<br />
it will stand up to scrutiny.  Please,  Abby,  urge your readers not to<br />
ignore their conscience or bury their feelings.  If someone feels<br />
something is wrong,  there&#8217;s a good chance it is.  </p>
<p align="center">-Free At Last<br />
</P></p>
<p><P><br />
Dear Free:  </P><P></p>
<p>You are 100 percent right in saying if something feels<br />
uncomfortable,  it&#8217;s time to examine it more closely and do something<br />
about it.  It&#8217;s not a sin; it&#8217;s healthy, mature behavior.  Anything that<br />
requires all your time and money is depriving you  of a balanced life.<br />
</P></p>
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		<title>Dectective Interview of the Sperato&#8217;s Past</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 19:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Compiled by Colete Blackburn (Sirisa) Personal information that could effect the innocent has been removed, such as last names. The following is from a report by a private detective that I hired in 1996 to look into the background of the founders of Morningland. People have asked me why I did this. Frankly I don&#8217;t [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<h3>Compiled by Colete Blackburn (Sirisa)</h3>
<p>Personal information that could effect the innocent has been removed, such as last names.
	</p>
<p>
		The following is from a report by a private detective that I hired in 1996 to look into the background of the founders of Morningland. People have asked me why I did this. Frankly I don&#8217;t know why someone didn&#8217;t think of this before. We were all devoted to these persons and their &#8220;cause&#8221; for a very long time knowing very little about their background. It just made sense to me in the process of sorting all of this out to find out who these people really were. I have left out identifying information on the persons discussed in this interview to protect them. I hope that this will help others who are trying to make sense of what happened in Morningland.
	</p>
<p><span id="more-98"></span></p>
<p>
		On December 16, 1996 Clara &#8212;&#8212;(Maiden name spelling declined although it sounds like &#8212;&#8212;-), New York &#8212;&#8212;was reached at her home telephone &#8212;&#8212;-, conversation with her was quite disjointed and skipped around a lot but the following is the general sense of the conversation. It should be remembered that CLARA and this investigator are strangers to each other and the conversation was conducted on long-distance telephone.
	</p>
<p>
		&nbsp;
	</p>
<ol>
<li>
			She is the legitimate widow of DANIEL MARIO SPERATO, a subject of this investigation. She cannot recall the date of their marriage but it was in a city or town in Pennsylvania. </p>
<p>
				&nbsp;
			</p>
</li>
<li>
			She and DANIEL had one child together (DANIEL, JR.)
		</li>
<p>
		&nbsp;
	</p>
<li>
		She now lives on the Social Security survivorship from her husband&#8217;s death. She knows he died in 1976, but is not sure where.
	</li>
<p>
	&nbsp;
</p>
<li>
	Both her father-in-law LORENZO and mother-in-law LUCY (LOUISE) are deceased.
</li>
<p>
&nbsp;
</p>
<li>
	DANIEL abandoned her and their child on Christmas Eve (she does not recall the year) and left &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-with PATRICIA (last name unrecalled if she ever knew it) and disappeared. PATRICIA had been married before and possibly had one child. She does not know PATRICIA&#8217;S married name (allegedly WOOD) and does not know if she divorced or abandoned her husband, as DANIEL abandoned her, CLARA.
</li>
<p>
&nbsp;
</p>
<li>
	DANIEL had also been married and had two children, a boy and a girl, before he married her. He reportedly had to go to Florida (Possibly a town called Aranda (Phonetic) to get his divorce inasmuch as for some unknown reason he could not get a divorce in &#8212;&#8212;&#8211;(She believes it may have had something to do with the Catholic Church). His divorce wife is Genevieve &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;, &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-, New York. She reared their two children alone and never re-married.
</li>
<p>
&nbsp;
</p>
<li>
	Daniel&#8217;s brother LAWRENCE (LARRY) SPERATO, would probably be willing to furnish information about DANIEL and PATRICIA. She believes PATRICIA was also from &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-but she is not sure and did not know PATRICIA or her family. </p>
<p>
		&nbsp;
	</p>
</li>
<li>
	She believes DANIEL&#8217;S Sister ANGELA &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-, who lives on &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-in &#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212; (husband TIMOTHY) would be willing to furnish information regarding DANIEL and possibly PATRICIA. </p>
<p>
		&nbsp;
	</p>
</li>
<li>
	CLARA advised that she would be willing to furnish additional information but the events discussed happened so long ago (and she is getting older) that she cannot remember names, dates and details as well as she once could. </p>
<p>
		&nbsp;
	</p>
</li>
</ol>
<p>
	A short time after this interview was conducted, probably about a month, I spoke to Clara on the phone myself. My recollection of the conversation is not precise because I did not think to write down what we had discussed at the time. I remember her telling me that she had just come from work so apparently she did something to supplement her Social Security. She was a very pleasant lady who had had to struggle to support her son by herself. I thought she was very kind to be willing to talk to me, I told her that I was writing about the church that her husband had founded. She told me that Daniel had worked in his family&#8217;s Pizza restaurant when they were living together and that that is where he met Patricia. She said that Patricia used to come in and sit at the counter. She did not know anything about Morningland or her husband being involved in any kind of church. She did not know what had happened to her husband after he abandoned her, which would have been in the early 1960&#8242;s. She felt certain, however, that his family in New York stayed in touch with him throughout all those years. She never remarried. I told her that I respected what she had been through and empathized with her situation because, ironically, I had a very similar circumstance in my own life with my natural father. She reiterated that I might be able to find out more from Daniel&#8217;s siblings. I did try but was unable to contact them.
</p>
<p>
	&nbsp;
</p>
<hr width="50%">
<h4>
	Additional Information not from private investigator<br />
</h4>
<p>
	Patricia had two daughters before Lynnie (Rada Ami). She abandoned them. So, between them, Daniel and Patricia abandoned a total of 5 children before her later abandoning of Lynne and Marcus (Seroth) who came later &#8211; making a total of seven children abandoned.
</p>
<p>
	Neither of them ever made any attempt to contact their children. Most disciples don&#8217;t even know they HAD children.</p>
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		<title>Book Review: Take Back Your Life: Recovering from Cults and Abusive Relationships</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 19:26:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Written by Janja Lalich, Ph.D., Madeleine Tobias Published by Bay Tree Publishing, Berkeley, CA, 2006. ISBN-10: 0-978-0-97200021-5-8; ISBN-13: 978-9720021-5-8. Paperback, 372 pages, $19.50. Courtesy of the International Cultic Studies Association Reviewed by Doni Whitsett, Ph.D. Whenever I&#8217;ve been asked to recommend reading to former members, families, or mental health professionals, Captive Hearts, Captive Minds: Freedom [...]]]></description>
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	Written by Janja Lalich, Ph.D., Madeleine Tobias<br />
	<br />
	Published by Bay Tree Publishing, Berkeley, CA, 2006.<br />
	<br />
	ISBN-10: 0-978-0-97200021-5-8; ISBN-13: 978-9720021-5-8. Paperback, 372 pages, $19.50.<br />
	<br />
	Courtesy of the<br />
	<a href="http://www.icsahome.com" target="_blank"><br />
		International Cultic Studies Association</a><br />
	<br />
	Reviewed by Doni Whitsett, Ph.D.
</p>
<p><span id="more-94"></span></p>
<p align="justify">
	Whenever I&#8217;ve been asked to recommend reading to former members, families, or mental health professionals, Captive Hearts, Captive Minds: Freedom and Recovery from Cults and Abusive Relationships was invariably at the top of my list. I can now feel comfortable replacing it with this revised and re-titled edition. Twelve years have passed since Janja Lalich and Madeleine Tobias first published Captive Hearts. Destined to become a classic, it was at that time one of only a handful of reputable works available on the subject as the cult field itself struggled towards professionalism and academic legitimacy. Now, twelve years later, Take Back Your Life reflects the progress toward those goals. Designed for both the lay public (particularly former cult members) as well as for mental health professionals and academics alike, this edition expands and deepens our understanding of the complex nature of the cult phenomenon.
</p>
<p align="justify">
	The book is divided into four parts: The Cult Experience, The Healing Process, Families and Children in Cults, and Therapeutic Concerns. It includes new information on important themes &#8211; dissociation, PTSD, child abuse, etc. &#8211; reflecting the maturity of the field of trauma and its potentially devastating aftermath. Updated to include events that have transpired since the first edition, the book includes a description of, among other events, the Heaven&#8217;s Gate suicides, the Aum Shinrikyo Sarin gas attack, and the murder-suicide of Children of God ex-member Ricky Rodriguez. There is an entire chapter devoted to children born or raised in a cult, expanding the earlier version. Dr. Lalich&#8217;s own theoretical model, known as bounded choice, is a nice addition as well. Other topics which had also been peripherally mentioned in the first edition are discussed at length in this new one, e.g. one-on-one cults, child abuse in cults, with new personal accounts that meaningfully illustrate the theoretical material. Alexandra Stein&#8217;s story of recovery &#8211; what helped in each stage and what didn&#8217;t help &#8211; should be of particular interest to therapists.
</p>
<p align="justify">
	However, although some neurobiological findings have been included from the work of Bruce Perry, the more extensive information currently available regarding neglect and abuse is somewhat limited. Thus, if any critique can be made about the book, perhaps it is this omission. The authors flirt with addressing insights from the burgeoning field of neurobiology but do not actually discuss them. For example, on page 37 they mention Kathleen Taylor&#8217;s (2004) tome on Brainwashing but shy away from discussing any pertinent insights. Perhaps the reason for this deficit lies in the purpose for which the book was intended, i.e. as a healing tool for the former cult members rather than as an academic delight. Nevertheless, in my own work as a clinician I have discovered that presenting selective neurobiological findings to clients is often an extremely powerful way of helping them understand a dimension of their cultic experience as it highlights the changes and effects at a cellular level.
</p>
<p align="justify">
	Shelly Rosen&#8217;s chapter on Therapeutic Concerns is informative and insightful. It carries the take-home message of empowerment and collaboration between client (former member) and therapist in contrast to the hierarchy of the cult structure. Ms. Rosen exhorts the therapist to be a new model of authority, someone who is competent yet shows his/her human limitations, in contrast to the cult leader&#8217;s grandiosity. Her therapeutic intervention of helping the client distinguish between his/her personal responsibility versus the influence of the social context is an important one. Limited space obviously constrained Ms. Rosen from discussing all the interventions that have been found to be helpful. For instance, the psychoeducational aspect might have been mentioned. Psychoeducation often includes helping the client develop a timeline showing how she or he was recruited into the group and came to take on its beliefs and practices, including a new, cult-induced self-definition. Additionally, Ms. Rosen&#8217;s interpretation of the phrase &#8220;being in therapy&#8221; as signifying passivity, a lack of agency, is somewhat arguable. Nevertheless, there are excellent suggestions for clinicians, a nice addition to the book.
</p>
<p align="justify">
	Take Back Your Life is impressive in its comprehensiveness and there is something in it for everyone &#8211; personal accounts by former members, concrete guidelines and tools for recovery, a useful review of various models of cult dynamics (Part 1). It should take its place among other important works on the bookshelves of all who are interested in understanding the cult phenomenon, be it former cult members struggling to make sense of their experiences, the people who love them, and/or the professionals who treat them. Understanding how people can be lured into an abusive social system and kept there ostensibly not only with their consent but with their collusion is a complex, multi-layered task that Lalich and Tobias have helped to simplify. Take Back Your Life will go a long way in assisting people to recover, recoup, and reconstruct their lives to make them their own.</p>
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		<title>Totalism &amp; Group Dynamics</title>
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	Forward from ex-morninglanders.com editor<br />
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The information found on this page was discovered at another website. After reading it once, I thought that some of it applied to Morningland and so I chose to include it here at ex-morninglanders.com. There were also a lot of assumptions regarding Chinese culture and psychological research of the 60&#8242;s and 70&#8242;s. It kind of smelled like conspiracy theories, and so I removed about 25% of this article leaving behind what you see on this page. For the entire text, please see:<br />
<a href="http://www.skeptictank.org/hs/cultdyn.htm"></p>
<p>http://www.skeptictank.org/hs/cultdyn.htm</a>.</p>
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<h2>
COGNITIVE DISSONANCE<br />
</h2>
<p>
Leon Festinger is a psychologist who studied groups that predicted the end of the world. He found that most members became stronger than ever when the prophecy failed. His investigation revealed that members had to find a way to cope psychologically with the failure. They needed to maintain order and meaning in their life. They needed to think they were acting according to their self-image and values. Festinger described this contradiction which they had to overcome as what has become known as the &#8220;COGNITIVE DISSONANCE THEORY.&#8221; The three components he described are:
</p>
<h4>
&#8220;CONTROL OF BEHAVIOUR&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;CONTROL OF THOUGHTS&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;CONTROL OF EMOTIONS&#8221;<br />
</h4>
<p>
Each component has a powerful effect on the other two: CHANGE ONE AND THE OTHERS WILL TEND TO FOLLOW. When all three change the individual undergoes a complete change. Festinger summarised the basic principle:
</p>
<blockquote><p>
&#8220;If you change a person&#8217;s behaviour, his thoughts and feelings will change to minimise the dissonance.&#8221;
</p></blockquote>
<p>
When there is a conflict between thoughts, feelings or behaviour, then those in conflict will change to minimise the contradiction. This is because a person can only tolerate a certain amount of discrepancy between these components which make up his identity. In cults this dissonance is created to exploit and control them.
</p>
<p>
Steven Hassan, author of Combating Cult Mind Control, added a fourth component to Festinger&#8217;s:
</p>
<blockquote>
<h4>
	&#8220;CONTROL OF INFORMATION&#8221;<br />
</h4>
</blockquote>
<p>
By controlling the information one receives you can control and restrict the individual&#8217;s ability to think for himself. You limit what he is able to think about.
</p>
<h4>
BEHAVIOUR CONTROL &#8211; The control of an individual&#8217;s physical reality.<br />
</h4>
<p>
This can include control of where he lives, what he eats, his clothing, sleep, job, rituals etc. This is why most cults have a stringent schedule for members. There is always something to do in destructive cults. Each cult has its own distinctive set of behaviours that bind it together. This control is so powerful that the cult member will actually participate in their own punishment and come to believe he actually deserves it! No one can command a person&#8217;s thoughts but IF YOU CAN CONTROL BEHAVIOUR THEN HEARTS AND MINDS WILL FOLLOW.
</p>
<h4>
THOUGHT CONTROL &#8211; The control of an individual&#8217;s thought processes<br />
</h4>
<p>
The indoctrination of members so thoroughly that they will manipulate their own thought processes. The ideology is internalised as &#8220;the truth&#8221;. Incoming information is filtered through the beliefs which also regulates how this information is thought about.
</p>
<p>
The cult has it&#8217;s own language which further regulates how a person thinks. This puts a great barrier between cult members and outsiders.
</p>
<p>
Another form of control is &#8220;thought stopping&#8221; techniques. This can take many forms: chanting, meditating, singing, humming, tongues (some even pay money to learn it), concentrated praying, etc. The use of these techniques short-circuits the persons&#8217; ability to test reality. The person can only think positive thoughts about the group. If there is a problem the member assumes responsibility and works harder.
</p>
<h4>
EMOTIONAL CONTROL &#8211; The control of the individuals emotional life<br />
</h4>
<p>
This manipulates a person&#8217;s range of feelings. Guilt and fear are used to keep control. Cult members cannot see the control by guilt and like other abuse victims are conditioned to blame themselves when things are wrong, even grateful when a leader points our their transgressions.
</p>
<p>
Fear is used to manipulate two ways. The first is to create an outside enemy (we vs them) who is persecuting you. The second is the fear of punishment by the leaders if you are not &#8220;good enough.&#8221; Being &#8220;good enough&#8221; is following the ideology perfectly. The most powerful emotional control is phobia indoctrination. This can give the person a panic reaction at the very thought of leaving the group. It is almost impossible to conceive that there is any life outside the group. There is no physical gun held to their heads but the psychological gun is just as if not more powerful.
</p>
<h4>
INFORMATION CONTROL &#8211; The control of the individuals information sources<br />
</h4>
<p>
Deny a person the information needed to make a sound judgment and he will be incapable of doing so. People are trapped in cults because they are denied both the access to the critical information they need to assess their situation. The psychological chains on their minds are just as powerful as if they were locked away physically from society. So strong is this psychological process they also lack the properly functioning internal mechanism to process any critical information placed in front of them.
</p>
<h2>
THE EIGHT MARKS OF MIND CONTROL TOTALISM &#8211; ALL OR NOTHING<br />
</h2>
<p>
Mind Control is a PROCESS of eradicating former beliefs and instituting new beliefs in their place through the use of COERCIVE persuasion. It is a PROCESS which is designed to break a person&#8217;s independence and individuality and replace it with the ideology clone. The Chinese called this process &#8220;thought reform&#8221; which was poorly translated into English as &#8220;brain-washing&#8221;.
</p>
<h4>
BRAIN-WASHING<br />
</h4>
<p>
Brain-washing is now considered to be a different process to thought reform or mind control. In brain-washing the victim knows who is the enemy. An example is American Patty Hearst who was kidnapped by a terrorist group. Through physical abuse she finally became a member of the group and took part in terrorist activities and bank robberies.
</p>
<h4>
THOUGHT CONTROL<br />
</h4>
<p>
Thought control is more subtle. The victim doesn&#8217;t know who is the enemy because the enemy seems like their best friend who only has their best interests at heart.
</p>
<p>
Cults practice a more refined form of thought control than that used by the Chinese. Leading psychologist, Dr Margaret Singer, said cults do it better than the Chinese because it is easier to get people to do what you want through manipulating them with guilt and anxiety. During this process the prospective recruit is re-educated and will abandon the precepts he has learnt from life for the &#8220;truth&#8221; or &#8220;enlightenment&#8221; offered by the group. In some cults this is done over a long period of time; Other cults can bring about this change within 48 hours. Whichever way the process takes place the results are the same. The individual has undergone a total change in personality and is often unrecognisable by their family.
</p>
<p>
The process of thought control has been documented by Robert J Lifton who researched what happened to the American prisoners of the Communist Chinese. He labelled the steps which have become the standard by which to judge whether a group is using &#8220;brain-washing&#8221; or &#8220;thought reform&#8221; on it&#8217;s recruits.
</p>
<p>
Robert J Lifton&#8217;s research showed that &#8211;
</p>
<blockquote><p>
&#8220;These criteria consist of eight psychological themes which are predominant within the social field of the thought reform milieu. Each has a totalistic quality; each depends upon an equally absolute philosophical assumption; and each mobilises certain individual emotional tendencies, mostly of a polarising nature. Psychological theme, philosophical rationale, and polarised individual tendencies are interdependent; they require, rather than directly cause, each other. In combination they create an atmosphere which may temporarily energise or exhilarate, but which at the same time poses the gravest of human threats.&#8221; (Thought Reform &#038; the Psychology of Totalism p 420)
</p></blockquote>
<p>
The eight marks noted by Lifton are:
</p>
<h4>
1. MILIEU CONTROL &#8211; Control of the Environment and Communication<br />
</h4>
<p>
The control of human communication is the most basic feature of the thought reform environment. This is the control of what the individual sees, hears, reads, writes, experiences and expresses. It goes even further than that, and controls the individuals communication with himself &#8211; his own thoughts.
</p>
<p>
Everything other than their beliefs is excluded. The organisation appears to be omniscient. They seem to know everything that is going on. Reality is their exclusive possession. In this environment the individual is deprived of the combination of external information and internal reflection required to test reality and to maintain a measure of identity separate from his environment. The individual can feel victimised by his controllers and feel the hostility of suffocation &#8211; the resentful awareness that his striving toward new information, independent judgment and self-expression are being thwarted.
</p>
<p>
EXAMPLE &#8211; Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses are a classical example of a closed community living within and mixing with the wider community. Because they are so well known we have used them as an example.
</p>
<p>
e.g. &#8211; In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
</p>
<p><li>
	You could &#8220;go beyond the &#8216;truth&#8217; &#8211; beyond what they taught. This showed you were thinking for yourself and put yourself above leadership. Those moving ahead of the Organisation are counselled
	</p>
<p><li>
	No gatherings other than those allowed or organised by organisation (1982).
	</p>
<p><li>
	Not making comments from your own thoughts at the meetings. Only comments from the study articles are permitted. No independent thinking is permitted.
	</p>
<p><li>
	The organization always seemed to know what was going on in your congregation and article appeared in Watchtower publications just at the right time (&#8220;food at the proper time&#8221;). This was done through Circuit Servants reports to Headquarters.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Use of &#8216;publisher record cards&#8217; etc. to monitor activities of members. Watchtower is aware of trends etc. by strict reporting and control of individual Witnesses activities.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Report on fellow brothers &#038; sisters (cannot get away from organisation)
	</p>
<p><li>
	Monitoring or observation of disfellowshipped or marked people.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Non Witnesses are viewed as &#8216;bad association&#8217;
	</p>
<p><li>
	Worldly education discouraged &#8211; better to go door-to-door
	</p>
<p><li>
	Employment that takes up time which should be devoted to Watchtower activities is also discouraged.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Should be &#8216;buying out the opportune time&#8217; in &#8216;theocratic activities&#8217;.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Taught to indoctrinate self!
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8216;Shepherding&#8217; of those who fall behind.
	</p>
<h4>
		2. MYSTICAL MANIPULATION &#8211; The Mystique of the Organisation<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		This seeks to provoke specific patterns of behaviour and emotion in such a way that these will appear to have arisen spontaneously from within the environment. For the manipulated person this assumes a near-mystical quality. This is not just a power trip by the manipulators. They have a sense of &#8220;higher purpose&#8221; and see themselves as being the &#8220;keepers of the truth.&#8221; By becoming the instruments of their own mystique, they create a mystical aura around the manipulating institution &#8211; the Party, the Government, the Organisation, etc. They are the chosen agents to carry out this mystical imperative.
	</p>
<p>
		The pursuit of this mystical imperative supersedes all considerations of decency of immediate human welfare. The end justifies the means. You can lie, deceive or whatever to those outside the organiz- ation. Association with the &#8220;outside&#8221; is only to benefit their own cause in some way. Some cults like Moonies and Hare Krishna&#8217;s call their deception &#8220;heavenly deception&#8221; or &#8220;transcendental trickery&#8221;. Members believe in the ideology to such a degree that they rationalize these deceptions. Members are kept in a frenzy of cult related activities. There is little time or energy to think about their lifestyle.
	</p>
<p>
		&#8220;The psychology of the pawn&#8221; &#8211; This person feels unable to escape from forces he sees more powerful than himself. His way of dealing with this is to adapt to them. He learns how to anticipate problems with the organisation and to manipulate events to avoid incriminating himself. This is the person who has been in the organisation long enough, knows something is wrong, is on the verge of leaving then suddenly becomes very loyal. They sell out to the organisation and will turn in friends who may have confided in them.
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. &#8211; In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;Theocratic strategy&#8221; &#8211; If you don&#8217;t have a right to know the truth it is OK to lie to you. (See &#8220;Insight&#8221; under &#8216;Lie&#8217;)
	</p>
<p><li>
	Avoid telling prospects &#8211; No blood, holidays, family, friends, etc
	</p>
<p><li>
	Bring someone new each time they call so prospect gets to know the people at the Kingdom Hall when they attend. (Planned spontaneity)
	</p>
<p><li>
	The ideology supersedes the welfare of the individual. They are not involved in charities outside the group [or in the group].
	</p>
<p><li>
	Not helping fellow memmbers to the detriment of promoting the ideology. This is more important than helping the sick &#038; elderly.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Prayers are general &#8211; for the organisation not the needs of the individual. See God as not interested in you as a person.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Blessed only for effort in promoting the Kingdom.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Ability of organisation to accomplish the &#8216;preaching work&#8217; seen as evidence of Jehovah&#8217;s blessing, direction and angelic help
	</p>
<p><li>
	Jehovah &#8216;sifts out&#8217; those not truly &#8216;in the truth&#8217;, those without &#8216;the right heart condition&#8217; which is why people leave or must be disfellowshipped. No one leaves legitimately.
	</p>
<h4>
		3. DEMAND FOR PURITY &#8211; Everything is black &#038; white<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		Pure and impure is defined by the ideology of the organization. Only those ideas, feelings and actions consistent with the ideology and policy are good. The individual conscience is not reliable. The philosophical assumption is that absolute purity is attainable and that anything done in the name of this purity is moral. By defining and manipulating the criteria of purity and conducting an all-out war on impurity (dissension especially) the organisation creates a narrow world of guilt and shame. This is perpetuated by an ethos of continuous reform, the demand that one strive permanently and painfully for something which not only does not exist but is alien to the human condition.
	</p>
<p>
		Under these conditions the individual expects humiliation, ostracism and punishment because of his inability to live up to the criteria and lives in a constant state of guilt and shame. Since the organisation is the ultimate judge of good and evil, this guilt and shame is used to manipulate and control members. The organization becomes an authority without limit in the eyes of members and their power is nowhere more evident that in their capacity to &#8220;forgive&#8221;.
	</p>
<p>
		All impurities are seen to originate from &#8220;outside&#8221; (the world). Therefore, one of the best ways to relieve himself of the burden of guilt is to denounce these with great hostility. The more guilty he feels, the greater his hatred, the more hostile is his denouncement. Organizationally this eventually leads to purges of heretics, mass hatred and religious holy wars. The group will point to the mistakes of all other belief systems while promoting their own purity. This gives the impression that their organisation is perfect, clean and pure as a people or group.
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. &#8211; In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
	</p>
<p><li>
	Dress and grooming have been laid down at various times. No pantsuits for ladies No beards or moustaches Short hair on men No coloured shirts for men No gold rimmed glasses Certain styles of clothing These rules change at the whim of the leaders.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Only 2 organisations: Jehovah&#8217;s and Satan&#8217;s. You cannot be part of both.
	</p>
<p><li>
	World has no conscience &#8211; all dishonest
	</p>
<p><li>
	Must keep clear of worldly celebrations (Christmas, Easter, Birthdays, Mother&#8217;s &#038; Father&#8217;s Day, Thanksgiving etc)
	</p>
<p><li>
	Loyalty displayed through meeting attendance and participation, field service, choice of marriage partners [strong 'in the truth'], shunning disfellowshipped relatives and friends.
	</p>
<h4>
		4. CULT OF CONFESSION &#8211; Reporting to leadership<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		This is closely related to the demand for purity. Confession is carried beyond the ordinary religious, legal and therapeutic expressions to the point of becoming a cult in itself. In totalist hands, confession becomes a means of exploiting, rather than offering solace for these vulnerabilities.
	</p>
<p>
		Totalist confession is an act of self-surrender, the expression of the merging of the individual and environment. There is a dissolution of self, talents and money. Conformity.
	</p>
<p>
		The cult of confession has effects quite the reverse of its ideal of total exposure; rather than eliminating personal secrets, it increases and intensifies them.
	</p>
<p>
		The individual becomes caught up in continuous conflict over which secrets to preserve and which to surrender, over ways to reveal lesser secrets can be revealed and ways to protect more important ones.
	</p>
<p>
		The cult of confession makes it virtually impossible to attain reasonable balance between worth and humility.
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
	</p>
<p><li>
	Confessing infringements to an Elder.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Putting in field reports (test of spirituality) [A monthly report of one's activities for that month. How many hours door-knocking; number of books and magazines sold; number of people one studied doctrine with etc]
	</p>
<p><li>
	Accept orders without question. Ask &#8220;How high&#8221; when told to jump.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Any who are aware of another&#8217;s sin must put this one in to the elders or the guilt will rest on their shoulders.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Congregation is made aware of the sin through talks and restrictions placed on guilty ones.
	</p>
<h4>
		5. SACRED SCIENCE &#8211; Absolute &#8220;Truth&#8221;<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		Their &#8220;truth&#8221; is the absolute truth. It is sacred &#8211; beyond questioning. There is a reverence demanded for the leadership. They have ALL the answers. Only to them is given the revelation of &#8220;truth&#8221;.
	</p>
<p>
		The ultimate moral vision becomes the ultimate science and the person who dares to criticise it, or even think criticism, is immoral, irreverent and &#8220;unscientific&#8221;.
	</p>
<p>
		The assumption here is not so much that man can be God, but rather that man&#8217;s IDEAS can be God.
	</p>
<p>
		This gives sense of security to the member. They are confident they can get the answer to the most difficult problem or question.
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses you can be disfellowshipped (kicked out) for daring to question what is taught in their publications.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Watchtower demands full devotion of members. Must not question the Organization (= questioning God)
	</p>
<p><li>
	There is an answer to everything, if you cannot find it in the publications you must &#8216;wait on Jehovah&#8217; and not &#8216;push ahead&#8217;.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Organisation itself will survive Armageddon but individual Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses have no such assurance.
	</p>
<h4>
		6. LOADING THE LANGUAGE &#8211; Thought terminating cliches<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		Everything is compressed into brief, highly reductive, definitive-sounding phrases, easily memorised and easily expressed.
	</p>
<p>
		There are &#8220;good&#8221; terms which represents the groups ideology and &#8220;evil&#8221; terms to represent everything outside which is to be rejected. Totalist language is intensely divisive, all-encompassing jargon, unmercifully judging. To those outside the group this language is tedious &#8211; the language of non-thought.
	</p>
<p>
		This effectively isolates members from outside world. The only people who understand you are other members. Other members can tell if you are really one of them by how you talk.
	</p>
<p>
		This narrowness of the language is constricting. The individual is linguistically deprived because language is central to the human experience and his capacities for thinking and feeling are immensely restricted.
	</p>
<p>
		While initially this loaded language can give a sense of security to the new believer, an uneasiness develops over time. This uneasiness may result in a withdrawal into the system and he preaches even harder to hide his problem and demonstrate his loyalty. It may also produce an inner division and the individual will publicly give the right performance while privately have his own thoughts.
	</p>
<p>
		Either way, his imagination becomes increasingly disassociated from his actual life experiences and may even tend to atrophy from disuse.
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. &#8211; In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
	</p>
<p><li>
	Theocratic strategy &#8211; &#8220;ark of salvation&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;new light&#8221;
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;meat in due season&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;faithful &#038; discreet slave&#8221; &#8211; &#8220;apostate&#8221;
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;The anointed&#8221; &#8211; Book study &#8211; Christendom
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;Christ Jesus&#8221; instead of &#8220;Jesus Christ&#8221;
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8216;back calls&#8217; now called &#8216;return visits&#8217; (terminology changes indicate who might be falling behind or who is not really a member)
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;Jehovah will take care of it in his due time.&#8221;
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;It&#8217;s the truth&#8221; &#8211; doesn&#8217;t matter if they make a mistake
	</p>
<p><li>
	Where else is there to go?
	</p>
<p><li>
	Worldly &#8211; Governing Body &#8211; New System of Things
	</p>
<h4>
		7. DOCTRINE OVER PERSON &#8211; Doctrine supersedes human experience<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		The ideological myth merges with their &#8220;truth&#8221; and the resulting deduction can be so overpowering and coercive that is simply replaces reality. Consequently past events can be altered, rewritten or even ignored to make them consistent with the current reality. This alteration is especially lethal when the distortions are imposed on the individual&#8217;s memory.
	</p>
<p>
		They demand character and identity of a person be reshaped to fit their clone of mentality. The individual must fit the rigid contours of the doctrinal mould instead of developing their own potential and personality. The underlying assumption is that the doctrine &#8211; including its mythological elements &#8211; is ultimately more valid, true and real than is any aspect of actual human character or human experience. The individual under such pressure is propelled into an intense conflict with his own sense of integrity, a struggle which take place in relation to polarised feelings if sincerity and insincerity.
	</p>
<p>
		Absolute sincerity is demanded by the group yet this must be put to one side when changes take place the individual has to deny the original belief ever existed. Personal feelings are suppressed and members must appear to be contented and enthusiastic at all times.
	</p>
<p>
		Some cults believe that all illness is a result of lack of faith and evidence of sin in your life. These things have to be prayed away and medical attention is ignored as a &#8220;sign of faith.&#8221;
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. &#8211; In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;There is no life outside the organisation&#8221; so when they see people who have made a life outside they revert back to doctrine over what they see.
	</p>
<p><li>
	If an experience doesn&#8217;t fit, it must be demons.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Will ignore needs of others because doctrine overrides human experience. i.e. will ignore needs of disfellowshipped or marked persons no matter how serious those needs are.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Those who were JW&#8217;s before 1975 and are still JW&#8217;s will deny they ever believed Armageddon was due that year &#8211; even those who sold homes, delayed medical treatment etc.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Watchtower has final authority even over personal experience. Blood transfusions, etc. Conscience matters are discussed only in the light of Watchtower doctrine (not left to individuals&#8217; consciences).
	</p>
<h4>
		8. DISPENSING OF EXISTENCE &#8211; Who is worthy to live<br />
	</h4>
<p>
		They have the right to decide who is worthy of life and who isn&#8217;t. They also decide which history books are accurate and which are not. Those in the organisation are worthy of life; those outside worthy of death. The outsiders can be permitted to live if they change and become an insider. Members live in fear of being pronounced &#8220;dead&#8221;. They have a fear of annihilation or extinction. The emotional conflict is one of &#8220;being vs nothingness&#8221;.
	</p>
<p>
		Existence comes to depend upon creed (I believe, therefore I am), upon mission (I obey, therefore I am) and beyond these, upon a sense of total merger with the organisation. Should he stray from the &#8220;truth&#8221; his right to exist may be withdrawn and he is pronounced &#8220;dead&#8221;.
	</p>
<p>
		e.g. &#8211; In Jehovah&#8217;s Witnesses
	</p>
<p><li>
	&#8220;Sheep and goats&#8221; &#8211; how one responds to &#8220;Christ&#8217;s brothers&#8221; decides their future. (&#8220;Christ&#8217;s brothers&#8221; are those who rule the organisation. How you respond to their message as carried by their messengers decides your eternal future).
	</p>
<p><li>
	Elders decide who is worthy of life at Judicial Committee meetings.
	</p>
<p><li>
	They decide who is worthy of a resurrection &#8211; (Sodom &#038; Gommorah).
	</p>
<p><li>
	Disfellowshiping &#8216;sinners&#8217; denyies them any hope for a future outside the Organisation.
	</p>
<p><li>
	They will blatently lie to achieve goals and consider this to be &#8220;theocratic strategy&#8221;.
	</p>
<p><li>
	Any information contrary to the Watchtower &#8216;system&#8217; is not considered worth listening to or reading.
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	Witnesses are forbidden to discuss such information, especially if is considered &#8216;apostate&#8217; [put together by former members]
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IN SUMMARY<br />
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The more clearly these eight points are obvious, the greater the resemblance to ideological totalism. The more an organisation utilises such totalist devices to change individuals, the greater its resemblance to thought reform.
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Remember &#8230;.. A group does not have to be religious to be cultic in behaviour. High demand groups can be commercial, political and psychological. Be aware, especially if you are a bright, intelligent and idealistic person. The most likely person to be caught up in this type of behavioural system is the one who says &#8220;I won&#8217;t get caught. It will never happen to me. I am too intelligent for that sort of thing.&#8221;
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		<title>Can your master be on the other side?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2010 04:54:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Question: Can your Master be on the other side and if so, how can you know if he is on the other side? Donato: If you look hard enough, you&#8217;ll find me in your dreams. Okay there are three items that I&#8217;d like to address in this teaching. 1) I&#8217;ve seen many examples of weird [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><em>Question:</em> Can your Master be on the other side and if so, how can you know if he is on the other side?</p>
<p><em>Donato:</em> If you look hard enough, you&#8217;ll find me in your dreams.</strong></p>
<p>Okay there are three items that I&#8217;d like to address in this teaching.</p>
<p>1) I&#8217;ve seen many examples of weird editing in Morningland publications in which Donato appears to never actually answer a question.  I don&#8217;t understand how seeing Donato in your dreams can enable you to know that he is on the other side. I&#8217;ll write this off to inexperienced editors.</p>
<p>2) &#8220;The other side&#8221; is a term that needs better definition too. I&#8217;m assuming that Donato means having passed through the transition of death as opposed to Sri&#8217;s use of &#8220;the other side&#8221; in the same context as the opposing party in a legal matter (i.e. &#8220;the dark forces are the other side&#8221;).</p>
<p>So, how do you know if Donato has made it to the other side?  By seeing him in your dreams?  Seems like going to his funeral would pretty much cement this fact in my mind.</p>
<p><em>Moving on&#8230;</em></p>
<p>3) My main issue with this teaching is that it really isn&#8217;t teaching anything. There is no wisdom here, but perhaps how to nourish an attachment to someone.  Do we really need to see Donato in our dreams?</p>
<p>Appearing at will in your dreams might help to prove that Donato is someone special, but that is only because proof is needed.</p>
<p>In Morningland, we spend a lot of time and energy maintaining a specific world view. If we were okay with the world as it is, we wouldn&#8217;t have to constantly seek proof of our reality.</p>
<p>-Sunfleur</p>
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		<title>Seeing It As It Is</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 05:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sri Patricia: SEEING: As It Is. That is prophecy; that is telepathy. If you see it as it drifts on down through the astral planes, and you&#8217;re not clear, you&#8217;re going to see it as you want to see it and you will sift out what you don&#8217;t like. You call it just as it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sri Patricia: <strong>SEEING: <em>As It Is</em>. That is prophecy; that is telepathy. If you see it as it drifts on down through the astral planes, and you&#8217;re not clear, you&#8217;re going to see it as you want to see it and you will sift out what you don&#8217;t like. </p>
<p>You call it just as it is. Something that sends you reeling still has to be reported just as it is. You can&#8217;t be a critic; you just relate the film as it is. It would be like describing a film to a blind person. Prophecy is to help those whose vision is clouded because they are not developed yet.</strong></p>
<p>This is one of the more confounding positions of Sri as she attempted to teach us how to rant and rave just like she &#8211; all in the name of <em>Vision</em>.</p>
<p>On one hand, &#8220;<em>As It Is</em>&#8221; should be a rather simple concept to teach. There is stuff, phenomena, what is, but then Sri adds all these other words about information drifting in from the astral planes. Prophecy, telepathy, vision, the spiritual weight of these words crushed our little friend <em>As It Is</em>.</p>
<p>This is why I used to think that seeing it <em>As It Is</em> was to read between the lines of life to unravel some sort of mystery. However, now I understand that this is flirting with illusion. Seeing it <em>As It Is</em> requires no additional software but rather the uninstalling of the constant commentary provided by the conscious mind. In this context, the conscious mind can be defined as the mind that thinks in words.</p>
<p>There is a higher mind too, though I&#8217;m not so crazy about the word &#8220;higher&#8221;. Taoism actually likes the word &#8220;host&#8221; (along with the conscious mind, the &#8220;guest&#8221;).  The host sees it <em>As It Is</em>, but there is no requirement for any visionary experience, just turn off the audio channel in your brain and what is left is <em>What Is</em>.</p>
<p>Animals are pretty well in tune with <em>What Is</em>. When you raise your hand with a rolled up newspaper, your dog doesn&#8217;t have to wrestle with thoughts regarding your intent. It knows. It is obvious. <em>What Is</em> is always the obvious. <strong>Nothing is hidden</strong>.  When we&#8217;re sent off looking for what is hidden, we are taken away from <em>What Is</em> and we run headlong into <em>What Isn&#8217;t</em>, into fantasy, into illusion.</p>
<p>Those in my life whom I consider to be true masters all limit their vision to what is right in front of them. There is no attempt to unveil the hidden, rather there is an attempt to accept what is <strong>without any further processing</strong>. </p>
<p>When we go looking for God in visions, we miss the manifestation of God in the now.  Just spend a few moments per day turning off the constant commentary in your head. Limit your awareness to what remains when you are silent in your mind. What is left in front of you is <strong><em>What Is</em></strong>.</p>
<p>-Sunfleur</p>
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		<title>Don’t Be Upset About Not Seeing Something</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 05:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Sunfleur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[DON&#8217;T BE UPSET ABOUT NOT SEEING SOMETHING &#8212; JUST WATCH THE THOUGHTS BECAUSE THE THOUGHTS WILL TELL YOU EVERYTHING. YOU DON&#8217;T HAVE TO SEE ANYTHING &#8212; IT&#8217;S ALL THOUGHTS. This quote comes from the June 1978 edition of As It Is. In this edition, Gopi Morningstaar shares some of Donato&#8217;s thoughts on the mind. Or [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>DON&#8217;T BE UPSET ABOUT NOT SEEING SOMETHING &#8212; JUST WATCH THE THOUGHTS BECAUSE THE THOUGHTS WILL TELL YOU EVERYTHING. YOU DON&#8217;T HAVE TO SEE ANYTHING &#8212; IT&#8217;S ALL THOUGHTS.</strong></p>
<p>This quote comes from the June 1978 edition of As It Is. In this edition, Gopi Morningstaar shares some of Donato&#8217;s thoughts on the mind.  Or perhaps he pays some mind to thoughts.  Either one. : )</p>
<p>&#8220;Thoughts&#8221; as a topic of conversation can be pretty screwy from the very beginning.  Sri&#8217;s use of statements such as &#8220;its all mind&#8221; and so forth can end up a little bit like looking into a mirror reflecting a mirror.  To this day, I&#8217;m not quite certain whether Morningland doctrine teaches that the mind is the problem or that it is the solution.</p>
<p>As for me, I would apply Donato&#8217;s teaching here to the benefits of watching your thoughts to gain insight into yourself.</p>
<p>If you&#8217;re ever feeling a low level anxiety in life and you don&#8217;t know why, watch your fantasies, they&#8217;ll tell you what you&#8217;re dealing with. Whether its telling off a boss or co-worker, or being a hero and saving the life of the girl who snubbed you, watching your fantasies is a sure fire way to get clear on what&#8217;s upsetting you.</p>
<p>You don&#8217;t need profound spiritual vision to know what&#8217;s going on inside of you, just watch your thoughts and they&#8217;ll tell you exactly where you&#8217;re at.</p>
<p>Beyond a sort of language and sometimes visually based barometer of your feelings, I don&#8217;t know that the talky mind inside of our heads is all that beneficial to the big picture. The sooner it shuts up the more likely one will come into the now and witness life as it is.</p>
<p>-Sunfleur</p>
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		<title>All Good Things Never Come to a Bad End</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Jun 2010 05:15:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[All good things never come to a bad end &#8211; all good things always come to a good end. It is you who create all the obstacles. I agree with Donato that it is we who create the obstacles, but the only real obstacle we create is the craving for good things or the aversion [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>All good things never come to a bad end &#8211; all good things always come to a good end. It is you who create all the obstacles.</strong></p>
<p>I agree with Donato that it is we who create the obstacles, but the only real obstacle we create is the craving for <em>good</em> things or the aversion to <em>bad</em>.</p>
<p>We decide if we want to see the glass half empty or half full. We decide if winning a million dollars is a good thing because we&#8217;ve never had that much money, or a bad thing, because we&#8217;re already wealthy and this only puts us into the next higher tax bracket. It can most certainly go either way, and it is always our own perceptions that color otherwise neutral circumstances <em>good</em> or <em>bad</em>.</p>
<p>Morningland was very fond of the saying &#8220;as it is&#8221; and rightly so, it is a beautiful expression of acceptance of the present circumstances without comparison to prior expectations, so there is no good or bad about it. When circumstances give us physical/emotional sensations that we crave, we say that things are &#8220;good&#8221;. When circumstances give us physical/emotional sensations to which we have an aversion, we call them &#8220;bad&#8221;. But it is only <em>our reactions</em> to <em>what is</em>, not <em>what is</em> that we&#8217;re actually calling <em>good</em> or <em>bad</em>.</p>
<p>Some of us were sent away from Morningland amidst great cries of anguish and gnashing of teeth. Others were sent away with a deep sigh and the sensation of a great weight having been lifted off of our shoulders.  Same exact experience, two very different perceptions.</p>
<p>Probably Donato&#8217;s best teaching of them all said that <strong>if you have no expectations, you&#8217;ll have complete fulfillment.</strong>  Expecting good things to always come to a good end is a rather dramatic departure from the wisdom of having no expectations, and this teaching about good things is in my opinion barking up the wrong tree. </p>
<p>If you insist on seeking out the <em>good</em> and/or avoiding the <em>bad</em>, you&#8217;ll be destined to live a life of <em>twoness</em>, not <em>oneness</em>.</p>
<p>-Sunfleur</p>
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